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Scripture Anchor

“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” Ephesians 4:32 KJV

Apostolic Insight:

Some things are over, but what they left behind is still taking up space within us, such as: 

1). The effects of an unpleasant event, a painful conversation, or a disappointing encounter.

The person has moved on, the situation changed, life continued, yet, we hold on to a little resentment, and repeatedly replay the conversation, and keep explaining the offense to ourselves.

2). An old embarrassment that still makes us cringe. 3). A disappointment that quietly changed the way we relate to people.

Most times we no longer carry the event, but We are carrying the residue.

Paul’s instruction about forgiveness comes at the end of a very practical discussion about what believers must put away: bitterness, wrath, anger, clamour, evil speaking, and malice.

That tells us forgiveness is not merely about declaring that an incident is finished; it also concerns what we allow the incident to continue producing within us. 

What Forgiveness Does Not Mean:

A). Forgiveness does not mean pretending something did not hurt, does not call wrong right.

B). It does not automatically restore trust.

C). It does not always mean returning a relationship to what it was before.

Forgiveness releases our claim to vengeance and refuses to let another person’s wrongdoing continually control our inner life.

Guard your heart. Refuse to replay negatives in your mind. Unforgiveness leads to bitterness.

Bitterness consumes energy, while resentment occupies thought. 

Unresolved anger can enter conversations that have nothing to do with the original offense, and sometimes yesterday’s wound begins making today’s decisions.

We need to recognize when that is happening, and shut it down.

HOW TO MOVE-ON AFTER FORGIVING OTHERS 

1). When you have already forgiven someone, you still need God to heal what the experience produced in you.

2). Stop rehearsing the story.

3). Make the apology you need to make.

4). Have that dreaded conversation 

5). Be at peace – refuse to be a drama king or queen. 

6) Only engage in things that add value to lives 

7). Let the change you want to see in others begin in you

Spiritual self-care is not merely asking:

“What happened to me?” It also asks: “Is what happened still producing good in me?”

Do not allow an old wound to keep occupying new space. Let God clear the residue.

Ponder This

Is there something from my past that is over externally but still influencing me internally?

Declaration:

Yesterday’s wounds will not govern today’s life.

I release bitterness, resentment, and the need for vengeance.

I receive wisdom for reconciliation where appropriate, boundaries where necessary, and healing wherever pain has left residue.

#PrayerOfAgreement

Father, search my heart and reveal what I have carried that contradicts Your Word and hinder progress.

Uproot bitterness,  bring truth and healing to areas of unresolved anger.

I receive the grace to forgive and release anyone who offended me, and also  the humility  to apologize as needed. 

Direct my steps towards reconciliation, and if  the relationship should not be restored give me discernment.

And where circumstances cannot be changed, help me to change my perspective and perception.

 I refuse to give yesterday a permanent  residence in  my today.

Cleanse my heart of every residue that interferes with peace, love, wisdom, and obedience.

I receive freedom to remember without being ruled by the memory.

In the matchless name of Jesus Christ, Amein.

Shalom,

Hephzibah Christly
#TheSpiritualWarrior