Day 30: Prayer Focus: Abusive Relationships.

• Scripture Base: 1 Peter 3:8-9

“Finally, all of you be like-minded [united in spirit], sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted [courteous and compassionate toward each other as members of one household], and humble in spirit; and never return evil for evil or insult for insult [avoid scolding, berating, and any kind of abuse], but on the contrary, give a blessing [pray for one another’s well-being, contentment, and protection]; for you have been called for this very purpose, that you might inherit a blessing [from God that brings well-being, happiness, and protection]”.(1 Peter 3:8‭-‬9 AMP)

• Introduction:

“An abusive relationship is a term that describes any relationship where one person exerts power and control over the other in a negative way. Abuse can be physical, but it can also be emotional, verbal, financial, or any other type of behavior that keeps one person under the control of another” (WEBMD)

Unless by a supernatural Divine intervention that would bring about fundamental changes in the abusive person, abuse tends to escalate.

Despite the hurts, and disappointments of abusive relationships, most people can’t just up and leave  because of some of the following reasons: Ignorance, lack of self-esteem, emotional and economic dependence, fear of death, the circle of abuse (confusion), religious, cultural and societal pressures, tired of trying to leave, gaslighting, hoping things will change for the better, because of the children, etc.

Most women get killed within a short period of leaving their abusers. 

Although leaving an abusive  relationship has its place, it does not deal with the roots of the issue. 

 When we confront the forces of evil who are using relationships to dehumanize and destroy people, we enforce the victory of  the Cross and restore the God-intent  of relationships. 

Relationships should be mutually beneficial.  God ordained relationships for Humans to grow in love and to be supportive of each other. 

However, everything about humanity began to deteriorate and degenerate when ‘Man’ in Adam chose to use his volition to obey satan and disobey God. (Reag Genesis chapters 1-6)

Only in Christ Jesus can relationships be salvaged. Although we can restrain the devil from furthering his torment of our loved ones,  the ideal is to actually pray for the salvation of the Souls of both the Abuser and the Abused.  

Although various therapies exist to help the abuser and the abused, however, only the inworking of the Holy Spirit through the ingested Word of God can bring about permanent character transformation.

The healings of both abusers and the abused are in a relationship with God. 

Let us run to the battle to save souls from their destruction. 

• #PrayerPoints4Today. 

1. In order to understand our intercession for today, kindly reread our Scripture Base of 1Peter 3:8-9.

2. Pray in tongues if you know how to, and worship God in songs until you experience the unction/anointing of intercession in your Spirit.

3. Acknowledge  that Our Father is the  God of all flesh and the Monarch  of the universe who rules in the affairs of nations.

4. Thank God forward for divinely intervening in  the lives of all abusers and abused individuals in honor of our invite to be God in their lives.

5. Command a disconnect and destruction of links between all the ruling evil spirits in control of the demons assigned to steal, kill and destroy relationships.

6. Command to go at once to the feet of Christ, the spirits of destruction, lies, manipulation, intimidation, violence, anger, resentment, religion, ignorance  bitterness, persecution,  perversity, and lack of self control, deception, wickedness, gaslighting, fault finding, control, injustices, low self esteem, with bestiality, and oppression, along with the evil spirits influencing abusers,  and their relatives.

7. Command the circle of abuse to be broken and be replaced with a deep hunger and thirst for God and His righteousness. 

8. Pray that all oppressors be broken and placed in position to take responsibility for their lives and seek help from God and His agents in order to transform their lives. 

9. Proclaim the severance of soul ties to bloodline/ancestral abuse, aversive stimuli, learned behaviors, ingrained feelings of worthlessness and their evil relatives.

10. Speak release and protection for all who escaped from abusive relationships and the severance of soul ties to abusers and deliverance from curses/yokes of hardship, servitude and oppression.

11.  Ask God to guide and help them find Him and to heal all their hurts.

12. In accordance with 1Peter 3:8-9, proclaim that relationships shall from henceforth experience unity of the Spirit and oneness of purpose, sympathy, empathy, brotherly love, and be kind hearted to everyone. People  will be courteous and compassionate towards each other and be equally humble in Spirit. 

13. Decree  that scolding, berating and any kind of abuse will be avoided and no one shall retaliate evil for evil or insult for insult.

14. Affirm that they will pray for the well being of others, be content and protective, thereby allowing the free flow of God’s blessings to their families.

15. If you are in or know someone who is in an abusive relationship, mention your name and pray specifically.

16. Thank God for answering this Prayer by confirming our word and performing our counsel in alignment to His perfect will. Hallelujah.

• Conclusions:

Thank you for praying along with us. Today’s prayer Mark’s the end of section 3. Glory be to God.

It has been a great time in the presence of God. I don’t know about you, but I have been blessed so much with new insights into certain issues from a Divine perspective. 

The revelations are just mind boggling! 

I would love to hear personally from you, how much the prayers have impacted you. 

Before you sign out, kindly Pray for us also:

That our Internet Missionary Initiatives, the Spiritual Warfare and Tactics Squad-SWATS, and all related outreaches:

• break new grounds and continue to fearlessly propagate the Gospel to everyone everywhere.

• That the Team and their families – experience miraculous moves of God in their lives
• The Word of God grows mightily through our internet’s missionary outreaches on all platforms.
• Agree with me for my children :

“Dee Dee, Debby, Michael, Bebeth, Raphael, Seyi, Segun, Favor; their spouses and my grandchildren” are manifesting divine health and  excellence in all aspects and facets of life. 

All who see my children and descendants  acknowledge that they are the seed which the Lord blesses. (Isaiah 61:9)

• #MyPrayer4You:

You and your descendants will  never be under the yoke of oppression but would rather enjoy the liberty of God in Christ Jesus. You shall continue to flourish as a tree planted by the riverbanks in the matchless name of Jesus Christ.  Shalom! Shalom! from Hephzibah Christly #theSpiritualWarrior .

• Important information:

God only responds to the Prayers of His Children. Here is a Prayer of Salvation if you desire to be a child of God.

PRAYER OF SALVATION

“O Lord God, I believe with all my heart in Jesus Christ, Son of the living God. I believe He died for me and God raised Him from the dead. I believe He’s alive today. I confess with my mouth that Jesus Christ is the Lord of my life from this day. Through Him and in His Name, I have eternal life; I’m born again. Thank you Lord, for saving my soul! I’m now a child of God. Hallelujah!”

Congratulations! You are now a child of God. Go right ahead and pray with us.

• To receive more information on how you can grow as a Christian, please get in touch with me (Hephzibah Christly) privately,  @ ³lSpiritual Warfare and Tactics Squad-SWATS (Facebook, MEWE, Telegram)

or visit:

Any Christ Embassy Church (Believers Love World) in your community or through any of our online Outreaches.

Blessings be on you all in the matchless name of Jesus Christ. Shalom from Hephzibah Christly – TheSpiritualWarrior