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“But if they do not have self-control, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.”(1Corinthians 7:9,NASB)

From various scriptures, we understand that God ordained sex for marriage.

Because of the fallen nature of ‘Man’, sexual sins give demons the leeway to torment violators in their dream state. 

Those who are being violated sexually in the sleep-state, can testify to how scary an experience it is. You have no control or choice in it. The demon comes and just takes over your sexual organs in your weakened state.You wake up feeling dirty, used and full of misery even though you may have derived some pleasure from the attack.

 You really do not need that experience! It dehumanizes!

Apart from causing marital problems, sexual immorality reduces marriage opportunities for those who desire to marry, leaving them unfulfilled for life.

Triggers

Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.(2Timothy 2:22)

The major trigger for sleep-state sexual abuses is sexual immorality. Read Galatians 5:19-21 for a list of more triggers.

Premarital sex is one of the links satan uses to be sexually abusive and wreak havoc in the lives of Christians. Or “Do you not know that you are a temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?”(1Corinthians 3:16,NASB)

satan is aware that once you become born again, your body becomes the temple of God-His dwelling place.

In order to make you abominable to God, he takes advantage of your legitimate desires for sexual fulfillment and subtly corrupts it by playing mind games with your feelings, which eventually leads you into certain activities in order to satisfy the needs. That is the reason pornography is so addictive.

Hence God wisely says in His Word that if you lack self-control, go get married. So that you can explore all your sexual fantasies within the confines of a God-ordained relationship. 

Instead of suffering sleep-state sexual assaults, or repeatedly be victimized by porno materials and premarital sex partners,you can actually be delivered and live a good life.

 Here is what you can do to be set free:

• Thank God for His mercy that gave you access to this content. (See Psalm 100)
• Take responsibility for your actions. Simply confess your sins by naming all you were involved in. (See Proverbs 28:13 &1John 1:9)
• Thank God for cleansing you from every unrighteousness. 
• Declare that as a child of God, there is therefore no condemnation to you for you now walk in the preordained  pathways  of righteousness, excellence, success, victory and prosperity.
• Affirm that two cannot walk together unless they are in agreement. But now that you do not agree with all forms of lust, all the evil spirits assigned to influence or reinforce lust, pornography, all forms of sexual immorality, works of the flesh and other related evils, should get out of your realm and reality and go to the feet of Christ: and never come back under any guise or disguise into your life and bloodline. 
• Proclaim that all soul-ties to past sexual partners, places, objects, etc. that reminds or links you to past ungodly behaviors are severed and destroyed right away.
• Declare that you are Holy unto God and all the faculties of your Body(physical senses),  Soul(Volition/Will, Reasoning/Mind, Emotion/Affection) Spirit(Communion,Intuition, Conscience) are dedicated to God.
• If you desire to be married, ask God to arrange your marriage because HE is your Father  
• Thank God for confirmation and performance of your words and counsel.

ACTION:

• Move out of that common law relationship or get married. (Boys shack, Men marry)
• Destroy all pornographic videos, magazines, etc
• Stop viewing sexually explicit content, stop reading romance stories and stop visiting places that influences/heightens sexual lust. 
• Be committed in Daily Bible Reading(subscribe to yearly Bible reading plan), Be more prayerful (join a prayer group so you can intercede for others), join a local Church community in order to fellowship with other Christians (Christianity is a together-faith) Tell others about how you are delivered ( by your testimonies, you overcome the devil and build up the faith of your hearers)

CAUTION:

If you go back into sexual sins instead of growing in righteousness, all the evicted evil spirits will come back and your situation will become worse. Read for yourself what Jesus says in the Bible 

“43 “When an evil[a] spirit leaves a person, it goes into the desert, seeking rest but finding none. 44 Then it says, ‘I will return to the person I came from.’ So it returns and finds its former home empty, swept, and in order. 45 Then the spirit finds seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they all enter the person and live there. And so that person is worse off than before. That will be the experience of this evil generation.” (Matthew 13 :43-45,NLT)

For your own sake and that of your descendants, maintain sexual purity. 

Understand SOUL TIES:

Sex bonds. It unites the core of two individuals. When you have sexual intercourse, deep rooted bonds are established with your partner(s)

That sexual bond is a ‘soul-tie’.

The Bible says:

“…don’t you know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.” (1Corinthians 6:16, BSB)

Marriage to another person does not automatically break the bond formed with an ex, unless you confront it from a spiritual perspective.

Soul-tie to past sexual partners are the reasons why people don’t move on from failed relationships. Hence some can’t cut ties with abusers without help.

Soul-tie is also one of the reasons that even a born again person can still crave or indulge in sexual intimacy  with ex- lovers.

The Human is Spirit, has a Soul to live in a Body. The Soul is the seat of Mind/Reasoning, Emotion/affection, Volition/Will power. 

In 1Peter 2:11, we are commanded to abstain from fleshly lust which war against the soul. 

The Mind/Reasoning is the major battleground in spiritual warfare.

 When you have premarital sex you share your soul with your partner and have opened up portals for demons to war against you.

Premarital sexual activity and other forms of sexual immorality if not quickly stopped,is degenerative. Not only will the high demon activity affect the Soul and Body, eventually,  spiritual life will deteriorates as well.

No wonder God says  we should RUN from all forms of sexual expressions outside marriage. Because, it not only grants the devil legal grounds to frustrate sexual enjoyment with a legitimate partner, it also creates emotional bondage to ex-illegitimate sexual partners.

What a sorry state of affairs.

It was sin that activated curses on Humanity. Whenever sexual sin happens you put yourself in jeopardy

The universe functions with laws that bring freedom and prosperity when obeyed and  bondage and destruction when violated. 

The law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus makes one free from the law of sin and death.

Sex is pleasurable.  However, that little time frame of pleasure can put you into a lifetime of horrors under the forces of evil, if you continue to sin Godlessly.

Although there are societal laws that make sexual immorality acceptable/legal, God has not changed His sexual or gender laws. The laws of God are written in the hearts of all HIS children.

Marriage is still honorable.

See how destructive soul-ties can be:

The story of Dinah:

Genesis 34:1-3, 

“Now Dinah the daughter of Leah, whom she had borne to Jacob, went out to see the daughters of the land. 2 And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite…saw her, he took her and lay with her, and violated her. 3 His soul was strongly attracted to Dinah…(See Genesis 34:1-3)

If you read further, you will discover the destruction that came upon the people of the land as a result of that sexual lust and the soul tie.

 Dear friends, RUN from all appearances of evil. Stand fast in faith.

NOTE

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 Hephzibah Christly

#theSpiritualWarrior 

Comments:

1. Jennifer Schaeffer 

Sadly this includes sexual abuse. It’s NOT the abused victims fault, however freedom is in breaking these ties. I have done this, myself. After years of coming to grips with the sexual abuse from my past, forgiveness wasn’t the only step. Cutting soulties with my abusers is what brought true freedom. I also believe women who’ve been sexually abused and are dealing with issues of fertility, there is a huge link. I’ve suffered miscarriages and infertility for 19yrs, and after finally breaking soulties, I am pregnant with my son, due in July. Freedom is on the other side!!! We don’t have to live in bondage. I also have to say, I’ve been married to the same man for 20yrs. We have been together 21! I’ve only had one intimate relationship, by choice, my entire adult life. Being tied to him, and him alone is a precious gift. We are one, as we should be. 🥰 (unedited from our FB SWATSQUAD page)