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Day17 of the 21 days Prayer Series:

Subject: Transformation17- Repositioning for Greatness.

Today, let’s reflect on the story of Gideon-a man who went from being a nobody to becoming a mighty deliverer of God’s people. 

In Judges 6:11-8:32, we read how Gideon, despite his fears and insecurities, was chosen by God to lead His people out of oppression.

For seven long years, the people of God were terrorized by enemy forces that always struck during harvest season-leaving them with nothing to show for their hard labor. 

Yet, in their desperation, they cried out to God for help. 

And as history tells us, God always raises deliverers from among His people.

God chose Gideon even when he was hiding from the marauding army. 

Like many of us, Gideon was overwhelmed by fear. He lacked self-confidence and had low self-esteem.

 But God saw his heart attitude and not his abilities. 

Remember Proverbs 16:7:

“When a man’s ways please the LORD, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.”

Though Gideon had initially mustered an army of 32,000 soldiers, God instructed him to reduce the numbers-to only 300 men. 

With this small force, Gideon achieved a miraculous victory against what seemed to be an invincible enemy. 

In gratitude, he was later elected king, yet he pointed the people to God as the ultimate Deliverer and Ruler.

Lesson:

God is the only One who can lead you to triumph over all challenges. 

Faith in God is the victory, as 1 John 5:4 reminds us.

Let’s Pray Together:

#PrayerPoints4Today:

1. Thank God: 

Acknowledge your problems and ask Him to glorify Himself through every situation.

2. Declare Your Faith: Proclaim that you trust in His grace to reposition you for greatness.

3. Be Specific: 

Identify the areas in your life where you desire to see His mighty power at work.

##MyPrayer4you:

I stand with you in agreement and declare that God, in His infinite goodness, will show up powerfully in your life and grant your heart’s desires in the matchless name of Jesus Christ.

Feel free to share your thoughts and prayer requests in the comments below.

 Let’s encourage one another on this journey of transformation!

Shalom from Hephzibah Christly, Ph.D., #TheSpiritualWarrior. February 17th,  2025.

Day16 of the 21 days Prayer Series:

Subject:Transformation 16 Blessings- our children & their families. 

Dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

Today, I want to share a personal testimony and focus our prayers on the blessings over our children and their families. 

For a long time, I resisted engaging in full-time Christian ministry because I was afraid of poverty and doubted my ability to give my kids a good life.

 Yet, God used dramatic circumstances to conscript me into His workforce. 

When I finally yielded, He instructed me to trust Him with my children and reassured me with His Word that He would train them and grant them great peace (see Isaiah 54:13). And He has never failed.

 Now, my children are grown with families of their own, and I continue to witness His faithfulness in the next generation.

This brings to mind the story of the prophet Samuel.

 Samuel was the answer to Hannah’s fervent prayer for a male child (1 Samuel 1:9-28). 

To fulfill her vows to God, Hannah dedicated Samuel to serve in God’s full-time ministry under Eli (1 Samuel 1:21-28). 

As a young boy, Samuel became God’s chosen successor to Eli when Eli’s own righteousness faltered (1 Samuel 2:27-4:22). 

Although Samuel, like all of us, faced challenges, today’s focus is on how God made him great among his peers.

#PrayerPoints4Today:

Gratitude: 

Thank God for the sacred gift that your children are.

Confession & Renewal: 

Identify their sinfulness and proclaim God’s faithfulness to forgive sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Self-Reflection: 

Acknowledge any areas in your parenting that may leave your children vulnerable to negative spiritual influences and ask for divine wisdom to correct them.

Rededication: 

Rededicate your children to God, asking for His divine protection and guidance over their lives.

Thanksgiving for Peace & Provision: 

Thank God for training them and granting them peace in every area—physically, mentally, financially, economically, socially, and spiritually.

Spiritual Authority: 

Command all evil spirits influencing unfavorable circumstances in their lives to leave immediately and submit to the authority of Jesus Christ.

Proclamation: 

Prophesy over your children and grandchildren, declaring the outcomes you expect in the matchless name of Jesus Christ.

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Shalom from Hephzibah Christly, Ph.D., #TheSpiritualWarrior, February 16th, 2025.

Day15 of the 21 days Prayer Series. 

Subject: Transformation 15: To Experience the Outworking of Grace and Favor.

It is important that you subscribe to my YouTube channel @thespiritualwarrior2016,  and to watch the videos.

  It will help you to understand my belief systems and why I pray as boldly as I do.

Which reminds me of how Samson confidently prayed and how God responded swiftly to him.

The birth of Samson was a fulfilment of prophecy.  

His parents overindulged him and he grew up a spoilt brat.

As I inferred in my book Demons Deactivated 1,  if love does not include discipline,  children will be exposed to demonic influences that will ruin their lives. 

Samson is a prime example of such an upbringing. 

He grew up having his ways,  making wrong choices, and ended up a victim of betrayal and enslavement.

He lost his dignity and was grossly humiliated.

However, despite all his mountains of errors,  when he repented and cried out to God, He was greatly helped.

God showed up strong for Samson!.

The Bible records in the book of Judges from chapters 14-16, how God delivered, strengthened and changed Samson’s  story.

Lessons:

You must recognize God’s gifts and callings in your life and align them with God’s will and purposes. 

For if  you take the route of fulfilling self desires, you will run into hazardous terrain and crash. 

But when you repent and return to God, you will experience the outworking of God’s grace and Power in your life. 

For God alone us the ultimate Deliverer and Restorer, He answers prayers.

Be Careful what you ask for. There is power in your mouth.

#PrayerPoints4Today

1). Thank God for your parents and forgive your parents for all childhood hurts etc.

(*) I understand that some people were abused by their parents .  

Remember: Forgiveness brings healings.

So, go ahead and release your mental health from demonic influences. 

2). Identify areas that you pursued your desires and did not observe Godly values. 

3). Acknowledge that you were sinful, express your thankfulness that God is faithful and Just to forgive sins and cleanse you from all unrighteousness. 

4). Affirm that God has intervened in your affairs and that there is a release of supernatural favors in your life, therefore, all obstacles to your success are destroyed.

5). Declare that from henceforth, there will be an Outworking of God’s grace in your life-marriage, career, workplace etc. 

6). Affirm that all pending issues will result in favorable outcomes, in the matchless name of Jesus Christ.

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Shalom from Hephzibah Christly,Ph.D.,#TheSpiritualWarrior, February 15th 2025

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Day14 of the 21 days Prayer Series.

Subject: Transformation 14-Supernatural Favors.

Today, I had the privilege of ministering by video to a congregation in Pakistan. 

They were all sitting on the floor. There were  lots of women and children in that congregation. A growing church.  Their pastor is so blessed.

So much love, joy and peace.

Which brings me to the Apostle Philip. He was very evangelistic. (Acts 8:26-40)

He never hesitated when Jesus called him and he went right ahead and invited Nathaniel to join with the team (see John 1:43-51)

Philip was a great soul winner and was actively involved in all the major aspects of our Lord’s earthly ministry.

After the resurrection, Philip and the other apostles were working in the desert of Samaria, when he was called out and given a special assignment to Gaza.

He was divinely appointed to meet an Ethiopian Eunuch, a high official in Queen Candace court.

Philip explained scriptures to him and later baptized him.

The next we read about Philip in scripture is about his 4 daughters who were prophetesses in Caesarea!

From the desert of Samaria to Caesarea, a wealthy town!  What a transformation, 

Indeed, the Word is profitable!.

After ministering to the Ethiopian Eunuch the Queen’s treasurer,   hardship vanished for Philip.

God rewarded his faithfulness  in ministry with supernatural favors.

#MyPrayer4you:

I pray for you that your labors in the service of God  will be richly rewarded in the here and hereafter, in Jesus’s name.

You will have supernatural favors, and unlimited goodness in the matchless name of Jesus Christ.

Shalom from Hephzibah Christly, Ph.D.,#TheSpiritualWarrior, February 14th 2025

Day13 of the 21 days Prayer Series:

Subject: Transformation 13: Rapid Response. 

 We recorded 2 videos this evening for upload to our channel @thespiritualwarrior2016. The prayer session was very intense.

Which reminds me of the intensity of Hannah’s Prayer. 

Hannah’s sister-wife Peninnah, was a bully. But she had more children than she could care for.

Whereas Hannah, the calm, coolheaded and God loving woman was barren.

One day, the bullying was more than Hannah could bear. Instead of wasting energy in confronting Peninah, Hannah took her troubles to God.

Even in the house of prayer, the man of God misunderstood her heartfelt prayers for the ravings of a drunken woman.

Calmly, Hannah explained what she was doing and why she was doing it.

And the Man of God blessed her, and God confirmed the word of his servant- Hannah became a mother of several children- including the famous  Prophet Samuel!

God indeed transformed the life of Hannan.

Read the story in 1 Samuel 1- end. Read Hannah’s song of deliverance in 1st Samuel chapter 2.

Today, I stand with you in prayer that God will remember you for good and rapidly respond to your prayer request,  in the matchless name of Jesus Christ. 

Stay in faith.

Stay encouraged, in the matchless name of Jesus Christ.

Shalom from Hephzibah Christly, Ph.D.,#TheSpiritualWarrior  February 13th, 2025

Day12 of the 21 days Prayer Series

Transformation 12: From glory to Glory.

Greetings everyone.

Thank you for subscribing to our YouTube channel @thespiritualwarrior2016

My prayer for you is that you will master your situation and circumstances and be the best version of you, in the matchless name of Jesus Christ.

Which brings to mind Timothy.

(Read 1 & 2 Timothy).

Timothy was really a controversial figure to be in a leadership position. 

 He was young, sickly, and from a biracial family. He was so low on self-esteem that Apostle Paul exhorted him to not allow anyone to take advantage of him, but rather, to be an example to other Believers in conduct, faith, love and speech (1 Timothy 4:12).

Fast forward to 2 Timothy 3:16-17 where the Apostle Paul referred to Timothy as dear Son! 

What a transformation! 

Timothy who started out with so many disadvantages made his mentor Apostle Paul, very proud to refer to him as a dear Son.

What are the issues that you are holding unto as disadvantages?

Health issues,  age, racial or gender discrimination should never deter you from attaining your goals. 

Let Timothy’s transformation be an example that will motivate you to reinvent yourself.

#MyPrayer4You

Today,  I command  those disadvantages to convert to advantages and bring you to the limelight. 

I declare that you are a city set on a hill that cannot be ignored.

Your ministry, marriage, family, business and spiritual life shall prosper.

I release to you now, the anointing of God’s Spirit that brings transformation!

Go! And radiate God’s glory in the matchless name of Jesus Christ. 

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Stay blessed.

Shalom from Hephzibah Christly, Ph.D., #TheSpiritualWarrior, February 12th 2025

Day11 of the 21 days Prayer Series.

Transformation11: Excellence in Life & Ministry.

Today was such a gloriously busy day. We recorded  our next videos for our YouTube channel @thespiritualwarrior2016. 

We absolutely enjoy sharing our faith in God with others.

Which reminds me of how committed the Apostle Paul was when he said;

”…this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.”

(Philippians 3:13-14 KJV)

The Apostle Paul  had to work harder than all the other Apostles.  

Although he faced strong opposition from his contemporaries, and was discriminated  against because of his background, he never slowed down!

He kept reaching forward for excellence. Eventually, he  established his self worth and authority.

What excuses can you hide behind as the reason for failures, mediocrity, and your desire to quit living?

When the going gets tough, the tough get going. 

You don’t quit because of frustrating circumstances.

Instead, you frustrate the circumstances and then master them. 

You make adversity work for you. You use them as a stepping stone to greater heights. 

A born again child of God is a mighty warrior in God’s army. 

We establish perimeters, set goals, and fight the good fight of faith.

Although the Apostle Paul was compelled to struggle more than others, it paid off for him and us.

How? He became one of the most influential followers of Christ, about half of the New Testament is attributed to Paul and those who were influenced by life and works in ministry! 

If his detractors could not stop him, and he overcame all the obstacles of discrimination and attained excellence in life and ministry, Beloved,  you too can attain excellence In life and ministry, you can do it.

Today. I stand with you in prayers to encourage and to ignite a fire in you.

You are who God says you are.

You can become the best at what you do without compromising your beliefs or work ethics. Go for it – Excel, for as a Christian you are the excellent creation of God. Know who you are.

Let us Pray

Prayer Points

Thank God for the gift of life.

Confront the evil of mediocrity, frustrating circumstances, and apathy. 

Thank God for the grace of forgiveness of sins and cleansing from all unrighteousness. 

Declare that the anointing of God’s Spirit that brings excellence, ease and productivity are at work in your life. 

Affirm that upward and forward is your path in life. 

Release spiritual blindness on all monitoring evil spirits and command all their monitoring devices to disintegrate.

Declare that in the presence of detractors, you will fulfill God’s purpose for your life. 

I pray for you that from henceforth, you effort will be emotionally fulfilling and financially rewarding in the matchless name of Jesus Christ. 

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Shalom from Hephzibah Christly, Ph.D., #TheSpiritualWarrior,  February 11th, 2025

When Anxiety Attacks


Bible Base: Philippians 4:6
“Be anxious for nothing…

What Are Anxiety Attacks?
When unexpected fear and panic overwhelm you, you’re experiencing anxiety attacks. 

In today’s world-with rising living costs, job insecurity, family separations, and even fears surrounding immigration enforcement, anxiety is more common than ever. 

While these are truly challenging times, remember: 

anxiety is a part of life, but how you handle it can determine whether you thrive or suffer.

Understanding Your Anxiety

  • Identify the Triggers:
    Take a moment to ask yourself, 

“Why am I anxious?” Pinpointing the source of your anxiety can help you process and manage the unfavorable outcomes.

  • Reflect Like the Psalmist:
    Consider the words of the Psalmist: “Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why the unease within me?” 

After discovering the cause, he encouraged himself, “Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise Him.”

Facing Your Fears

  • Visualize Outcomes:
    Imagine both the worst-case and best-case scenarios. 

Remember: confronting your fears diminishes their power, whereas avoiding them only allows them to grow.

  • Scriptural Assurance:
    The Bible reminds us in 1 John 4:18 that “perfect love drives out fear,” and 2 Timothy 1:7 tells us God has given us a spirit of power, love, and self-discipline.
  • Do Not Run:
    Facing your issues head-on prevents the enemy from exploiting your fears (see John 10:10). 

Choose the outcome you desire-likely the best-case scenario-and work toward it with courage.

Strengthening Your Faith
Confront your fears with unwavering faith in God. As Hebrews 11:6 says, “Without faith it is impossible to please Him.” Ask yourself:

  • Do I believe that God is for me?
  • Do I believe that God loves me?
  • Do I believe that God can change my circumstances?
  • Do I love God?
    (Remember: perfect love casts out fear. If you love God, you can confidently trust that He’s got you.)

Hinging Your Faith on Who God Is

  • God’s Promise:
    Romans 8:28 assures us that God works all things for the good of those who love Him. 

Never let worst-case scenarios dictate your fear.

  • God’s Faithfulness:
    2 Timothy 2:13 reminds us that whether our faith wavers or not, God remains faithful.
  • Victory Through Faith:
    Let your faith in God be your spiritual therapy. It brings peace and empowers you to confront challenges as a victor, not a victim (1 John 5:4).
  • A Born-Again Reminder:
    If you are born again, remember 1 John 4:4: “The One who is in you is greater than the one in the world.” And as Romans 8:31 asks, “If God is for you, who can be against you?”

Nourishing Your Mind
Your mind is a major battlefield in spiritual warfare. Feed it with the Word of God:

  • Daily Bible Reading:
    Let Colossians 3:16 inspire you to allow the doctrines of Christ to dwell in you richly.
  • Pray Without Anxiety:
    When your thoughts are grounded in Scripture, you won’t be overwhelmed by anxiety. Instead, you’ll present your requests to God through prayer and supplication.

Remember, fear comes in when you anchor your thoughts on negatives.  And fear has torment. So, do not fear. Confront your fears with faith in God. 

Prayer Points for Deliverance

  1. Thankfulness:
    Thank God for the gift of your life.
  2. Acknowledge & Declare:
    Admit your anxiety, then declare that God’s peace now floods your soul.
  3. Use your Authority in Christ:
    In the name of Jesus, command the spirits of torment, fears, anxieties, and their relatives, to leave your space and world of influences. 
  4. Affirm that you have been given the spirit of power, love and self-control and are now bold and brave.
  5. Present Your Requests:
    Bring your heartfelt prayers and thanksgiving before God.

Closing Blessing
I speak peace to your soul. I pray  that God who works in you, will perfect all that concerns you, Be well-in your mind, body, and spirit, in the matchless name of Jesus Christ.

Shalom from Hephzibah Christly, Ph.D, TheSpiritualWarrior,
February 7, 2023, Revised February 10th 2025

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Day9 of the 21 days Prayer Series.

Subject: Restoration 9- Prevailing mercy.

Hey precious friend. Trust your month is going well.

You could send a prayer request or share your testimony with me as well. It will be encouraging.

I really do need God’s mercy to prevail in my life.  He did it for Abigail,  I know that He will do it in my life as well.

If you need to experience God’s prevailing mercy,  then join me in this prayer as I use what God did for Abigail as a point of contact.

Abigail was married to Nabal whose name means “the fool”.

His foolishness was of epic proportion because he dared to insult an exiled anointed king who was a warrior!

King David was so angry that he decided to avenge the insult. 

When Abigail heard how her husband had released the spirit of death over their household, she quickly intervened and stopped David from his murderous rage.

The foolish Nabal suffered a paralysis and later died.

Eventually Abigail became the wife of King David – a far more exalted position than what she was. Read about Abigail in 1 Samuel 25, 2 Samuel 3:3)

Today, we shall prayer fully ask God to:

a). Supernaturally intervene to stop all negative decree, decisions, rulings,  etc that will affect us, our children or generations following.

b). Declare  that the Godly wisdom that enables you to do the right things at the right time, is manifesting in your life. 

 c). Proclaim  that God’s mercy is Prevailing over all barriers, bottlenecks of bureaucracy, resistances,  roadblocks,  decrees, policies that are attempting to frustrate your 

your unprecedented progress. 

d) Declare that grace and favor are working relentlessly and you will be singled out for supernatural favors- for God is causing All things to work together for your good.

e) Command to go at once to the feet of Jesus Christ, all the evil spirits that are working against your next levels.

f). Declare that nothing can stop you from attaining your goals, fulfilling your dreams or from sharing your testimony of favorable circumstances and miraculous interventions.

I stand with you in prayers, and declare that your expectations will be granted and the book of remembrance is opened and your case will be revisited in your favor, in the matchless name of Jesus Christ 

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We have been discussing spiritual warfare practically.

If David a mere man could remember Abigail and blessed her, rest in the knowledge that God will remember you for favors 

Read Psalm 86:17.

God bless you. 

Shalom from Hephzibah Christly, Ph.D.,#TheSpiritualWarrior, February 9th 2025.