“God commendeth His love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8)

God hates divorce not divorcees. Understandably, you are hurting from the betrayal of your spouse. However, it is counterproductive when divorcees allow every form of strife to take root in their hearts, while praying for ‘marriage-restoration’. Can you mock God?

There are so many people ‘standing’ with the hope of reconciling with the spouse who have remarried. Instead of ‘standing still’ and working on themselves, they engage in smear campaigns assassinating the character of the ex and the new spouse.

The anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God. (See James 1:20)

Your self-righteous indignation and hateful words will further alienate your spouse. No one wants to go back to a narcissist. By your words and actions, you frustrate God’s grace that is available for the restoration of your marriage.

Be gracious:

When you are gracious, you will not be vengeful but compassionate. If not for the grace of God, you would have been the victim of lust. Because you have not fallen into sexual sins does not make you holier than them. You sin differently and thus have no moral justification to cast any stone at them. So chill.
For “It is of the LORD’s mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning”. (Lamentations 3:22-23)

Therefore, “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers”. (Ephesians 4:29)
Learn to minister grace to others. Work on yourself. Renew your mind with the Word of God and your character change will recreate an attraction.

Walk in Love:

If you truly desire restoration and not revenge, “Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you”. (Ephesians 4:31-32)

In order to walk in love, you have to ‘walk in the Spirit’ and you will no longer fulfil the lust of the flesh. (See Galatians 5:16) The mind is the major battleground in spiritual warfare. When you allow negatives dominate your mind, you will become more vindictive, manipulative, and narcissistic.

Whereas, when you feed your mind with the Word of God, you will yield to the guidance of the Holy Spirit. The way you see and respond to things will change. There will be no room for self-righteousness, judging and condemning of others. Instead, the love of God will flood your soul. That love will motivate you to seek the salvation and not the death of the sinner.

Just as God commended His love to us while we were still sinners, you will become selfless and esteem others better than yourself. (See Philippians 2:3) You will become love-personified. Love will be the motivation for your words and actions. Your focus will be on pleasing God and not on avenging your ex or proving his/her guilt to the world.

From the Word of God I say this to you:
“Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you…Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.” (Matthew 5:43-48)

PRAYER POINTS
* Thank God for the grace of marriage, forgiveness of sins and for the finished works of the Christ.
* Ask forgiveness for frustrating the grace of God by your unforgiveness, anger, self-righteousness, evil communications, and other personal sins.
* Affirm your faith in God, His justice, faithfulness, love, and Omnipotence.
* Declare you are Spirit-filled and Spirit-led, are delivered from the forces of darkness and have the power of attorney to enforce the victory of the Cross.
* Command to go at once to the feet of Christ, all the foul spirits and their relatives that have been fighting against your marriage- call out their names, (divorce, hatred, disunity, disagreements, domination, narcissism, unforgiveness, lust, hate, revenge, etc.)
* Declare the restoration of your marriage and that God perfectly rearranges your circumstances to glorify Him.
*Bless your spouse and the other Man/Woman. Ask God to perfect all that concerns them and to give them their own spouse. *Thank God for speedy answers, in Christ mighty name.

AFFIRMATION
The filling of the Holy Spirit and power, causes love to motivate my thoughts, words, and actions. I now see and relate with others with the love of God, in Christ precious name.

From Hephzibah Christly

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