Blessings dear friends and readers. We have entered the holiday season that lost, lonely or bereaved people dread. It traumatizes them. If you have read my personal testimony: “Holiday Trauma turned Testimony.” you will understand that at one point in my life, I too was lost, lonely and bereft of family or friends. So I do understand that this season can be quite challenging for you.
Permit me to share with you the faithfulness of God in my life as I travailed in prayer and lived by faith on God’s Word.
I could have stayed a victim and wallowed in self-pity; but instead, I chose to pray myself out of that condition. I held onto God in faith tenaciously like Jacob. I said to Him, “I will never let you go unless you bless me“. Those years of hardship edified me. It formed character in me.
We have been made overcomers in Christ Jesus. So whatever your situation, condition or circumstances are, you are getting past it in Jesus Christ gracious name.
It is so easy to blame others for your life’s troubles. But until you accept responsibility for your life as in the way it is going,you will never make advancement in life. Even though you may have been born disadvantaged, it is your wrong choices that kept you disadvantaged.
During this festive season, do not allow the feeling of inadequacy overwhelm you. Refuse to entertain depression. Instead, use this time out to take a very good look at your life. If you are really tired of your present lifestyle take these steps:
Review your past. Confront your present. Plan for your future.
People perish from lack of vision (Proverbs 29:18). People are destroyed from lack of knowledge (Hosea 4:6) But through knowledge shall the just be delivered. (Proverbs 11:9).
A lack of vision and the lack of right knowledge will not allow you to escape from a destructive heritage or environment.
The onus is on you to provoke a change in you life.
Crying and pity-party will only make you sick. Wipe your tears. Stop the pity-party. And review your life in the following manner:
- You must see your life for how it is –
Isolate the problem, identify the sin that caused the problem to linger – is it hereditary, medical, spiritual or environmental. Try to listen to God to learn the lesson in the afflictions. If it is hereditary, identify with the sin and repent for your bloodline. Whatever it is, own it and ask God to forgive and help you. Your righteousness is like filthy rags before God. Only the Christ sacrifice and your acceptance and appropriation of it will provoke a supernatural change in your life.
You are the solution of your problem.
- You must also see you for who you are –
Are you a ‘born again‘ child of God? (If you are not, then get ‘born again’, I will post the salvation prayer at the end of this writing)
If you are ‘born again‘, then examine yourself to see whether you are still practicing the faith.. Identify your character flaws and resolve to work on you.
Bad character alienates blessings. It will put off your destiny helpers and block channels of blessings. You must take steps to reinvent or recreate You! Let the change you desire start from you. Review your mindset and how you see people and things.
I remember the days of my wilderness journey. I strongly desired a transformation of my personality. I wanted to reflect the personality of God. As I prayed, the Holy Spirit led me to the Fruit of the Holy Spirit which “is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control” Galatians 5:22,23). I wrote it out on cardboard and pasted it everywhere in our home. I memorised it .
I had issues with anger. My temper had a very short leash. And when I am angry, I verbally lash out. And things can get very nasty if the provocation continues. I was a very violent person. I start fights at random. I was an accident happening anywhere. It was a demonic torment.
Whenever I get angry, things get out of control very quickly. Superhuman strength would well up in me. And there would be a ringing in my ear. The object of my anger would become very small in my sight. I would feel like Goliath the giant. All I could hear would be ‘kill him/her’ repeatedly.
No voice of reasoning can penetrate the ringing in my ears, for it effectively shuts all voices out except the voice prompting me to attack. Only my elder sister Sarah could handle me. She would stay at a very safe distance while calmly and quietly calling my name. Only then would I awaken as if from a stupor.
Afterwards, I would feel shame at my behaviour and fear at what would have happened if my sister did not intervene. It made people avoid me. It avoided my relationship with people at work, home and at play. Anyone who ever witnessed that outburst of anger avoided me like the plague. It was a horrible phase of life for me. But things changed for me very much when I decided I must change me.
So, whenever issues arose that would trigger that irrational and demonic anger in me, I would audibly declare repeatedly: “I have self-control, I’m a good person, I refuse to be angry, God help me“. And peace from God would flood my soul. It was a great battle.
The testimony is that I overcame anger and I am now a better person for it.
And so can you overcome your personality flaws, character deficits and whatever the devil is using to keep you in bondage.
But you must do your part in enforcing the victory of the Cross. Your deliverance is a done deal, but you have to appropriate it- you must take possession God’s Word and apply to your reality. Your mouth is the edge of a weapon. Make it work for you. Keep saying God’s Word until your situation conform to what the Word says. Remember that God called out light from darkness. Call out how you want your situation to become.
- Most importantly, you must see who you are in Christ Jesus and how your life should be:
Joseph had a dream of greatness. He was despised, mocked, put into a pit, pulled out and sold into slavery. He was falsely accused, jailed and forgotten. But his vision spoke out. Even though it tarried, it became reality.
- You must also be confident that your expectations shall not be cut off (Proverbs 23:18)
- Strongly desire a change of the status quo. For God grants the desires of our hearts. ( Psalm 37:4)
Pray, plan and prayerfully execute your plans.
If you have no plans, then you leave room for the devil to enforce his plans in your life. If you stand for nothing, then you will fall for everything.
Take a stand today. Say to yourself- Enough is Enough! I must advance! I have circled this problems enough already! Now give a shout of victory. Hallelujah!
Your life is a gift from God. He wills that you have life in all its fulness. If you are “born again”, everything you need to live a Godly life has been bequeathed to you. It is your responsibility to arise , pursue, overtake and recover all the enemy stole or stopped from you.
I will share briefly with you:
How I Pray, Fast, Plan and Prayerfully Execute Plans:
It is important to know that “For everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven ” (Ecclesiastes 3).
The sons of Issachar stood out among their brethren in that they “were men that had understanding of the times.” They knew what what ought to be done. (1 Chronicles 12: 32 ).
God works through a process. You must not miss the time of your visitation like Michal who was King David’s most loved wife. She died childless because she was ignorant of the time of her visitation.
Instead of Michal to rejoice that she was experiencing of Restoration of the Ark of covenant: she only saw the undignified manner in which David danced before God. She did not realize that the Spirit of God came mightily upon David in that undignified dance. After David had completed the task at hand, he went home to bless his childless but most loved wife. But instead of linking up with the anointing of the Holy Spirit that was upon David at that time; she mocked David and activated a divine curse upon her life. The anointing would have destroyed the yoke of childless upon her life. But alas! she was ignorant of the time of her visitation.
You should therefore listen to what the Spirit of God is saying to you through the Times and seasons of your life. God does often use situation and circumstances to draw our attention to Him and to what He is about to do.
I have had several experiences of seeing God’s move through happenings around. And also by the inner promptings of the Holy Spirit. I have also come to understand the rhythm in how how God deals with me. And how the devil attempts to hijack my oncoming blessings.
You need to grow in intimacy with God for these things to be revealed to you. Without the Holy Spirit sensitizing you to the atmosphere around you, everything would just be commonplace to you.
It is God who reveals the deep and secret things. He know what is in the darkness and the Light dwells with Him (Daniel 2:22)
Over the years, I have come to understand that my time of visitation happens in the 1-3-5-7 year seasons. Theologians say that the number 3 represent completion: while 5 symbolizes grace and 7 perfection. I know that if I miss a goal in the first year, in another 3 years, the opportunity would come again in a different manner. And I revaluate my strategies make the necessary adjustments and then pray it forward. reevalute
At the end of every year, I always embark on a 40 days fasting and prayer time from December 1- January 9 the following year.
I have had a good life. My life is now so different from when I was in the valley of despair while living at “Easylife Public Toilet”.
In my 19th year of full time missionary work, God gave m I was burnt out. I needed a change. But I did not know how to go about it. So I prayed generally. But as the year 2013 was coming to a close, I felt a stirring in my spirit to launch out into the deep.
As is my custom, from December Ist to January 9, I always go on a 40 day fasting and praying time. And I received word in my Spirit that the prayer theme should be ” My Story must Change to Glory”
God’s Word came to me saying ” I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore I have drawn you with lovingkindness” says:Mourning Turned to Joy
…2Thus says the LORD, “The people who survived the sword Found grace in the wilderness– Israel, when it went to find its rest.” 3The LORD appeared to him from afar, saying, “I have loved you with an everlastinglove; Therefore I have drawn you with lovingkindness.4“Again I will build you and you will be rebuilt, O virgin of Israel! Again you will take up your tambourines, And go forth to the dances of the merrymakers.…jeremiah 31
New American Standard Bible
I am preparing to go back to the missions field. I had worked 20 years without holiday on the front lines. In 2014 God gave me the grace to take an extended holiday which is ending soon. I know so because I have received prompting in my Spirit to get ready to go back to the field.
During the holiday I was able to function online, expanding our ministries to reach more souls. And this page is one of such ministries. And to God’s glory, our ministries function purely on God’s grace without solicitations.
We do not solicit for funding. Whatever we need in order to push the ministries to another level, we pray and Ask ABBA. He gave the vision and thus gives the provision through whoever HE pleases. And HE has never failed us. He meets our needs miraculously.
He has given me Consistent Partners who have been very supportive with their finances. And thus I’ve been supplied what is needed to do the work of ministry. Especially staying online and sending support to the ones in residential therapy back at the mission field.
It has been an awesome journey living by faith on the Word of God. I have had my moments of wondering where the next meal would come from. But over years I have seen God’s unfailing goodness.
My major partners have been my kids, siblings and good friends I met online. God richly reward their labor of love. I have no personal needs as one of my kids and spouse settle my housing bills. So that makes it much easier for me to focus on other missionary ventures.
I am thankful for the multiplier effect upon my finances that makes a little go a very long way. And which enables me to extend the hand of fellowship to my various wards.
Some of the souls we won in the mission field are in the universities getting an education. They are from poor backgrounds and would have lived a life of crime but for God’s intervention through us in our mission field.
The mission field at the rural community is still functioning. But sad to say, the associate pastor recently quit and moved on to greener pastures. But am glad that we touched lives there and they are still abiding in the vine.
Pray with me as I pray with you also. I am in a season of fasting and prayers, groaning in the Spirit to birth New Beginnings as we move into 2018.
I look forward to going back to the Frontline. But before then, I am holidaying with family.
Please Keep me and my ministry partners in prayers. As we embark on a new missionary project, we ask for direction, provision and more consistent ministry partners who will run with the vision.
Knowing you through this platform has been God’s doing. You too are a beneficiary of God’s grace through our ministries. We ask that you keep the fire burning. Pass on the touch.
Please reach out to others less fortunate than you. Start with what you have and where you are. The more faithful you are in doing good, the more God will increase your capital base so that you can do more. As scripture says, the “liberal soul shall be made fat”. It’s not Christian hype. It is the reality of who God is. I am a living witness.
Read how it was for me years ago on our blog @spiritualwarrior2016.wordpress.com titled “Holiday Trauma Turned Testimony and compare with this testimony. God is faithful. He will not allow your children beg for food nor will He give the enemy opportunity to rejoice over you.
As this page is blessing you, bless others. Share our posts and links from our blogs with others. Comment on posts, share your thoughts and testimonies. Do the work of an evangelist. Stay focused on God. Your change is come.
You can join me in prayer and fasting to herald a new beginning. You can also send me your prayer request. I promise to stand with you in prayer. And to give you Godly counsel when you ask for it. Many will testify that they have experienced tremendous outcomes through my inbox and WhatsApp counseling platforms.
Ministry is my life. Prayer and Preaching the Good News is my business. Shalom!
God bless you.
From Hephzibah Christly