“God cannot be mocked; a man reaps what he sows” Gal 6:7, NIV:
In any relationship, how you interact with the other person determines how that person will interact with you. This is so because people only notice what the other person says and does and then treat them accordingly. What you sow you reap. When people receive love and appreciation, they give back love and appreciation. When people receive criticisms and resentment, they give back what they have received also.
Dear people of GOD, we can no longer allow our basest instinct for survival influence our relationship with others.
When two people in a relationship react in anger instead of responding in love, then there is no one at the helm of the ship and the ship will hit the rocks.
The man is the stronger in the relationship and should therefore regain control by resolving issues instead of creating a circle of conflict by resisting, attacking and withdrawing, or else, the other partner(the weaker vessel) will put up and fortify walls, distance will grow and the experience of love will quickly fade away.
In CHRIST love, will you both stop hurting each other over and over again and feeling justified about your words and actions; and start working at rebuilding what you both have damaged in your God given relationship?

When relationships don’t work, it affects your whole personality and every aspect of your life.

The fear and upset can be so consuming as to make you lose all effectiveness .

To move forward becomes difficult . It would also affect your future relationships because you’ll be carrying the baggage of the past painful experience wherever you go.

Until you heal your relationships, you will never be totally free. The anger and hurts will follow you forever. It is to your advantage to work at healing your present relationship.

Any relationship can heal.

Healing starts when you see your role in the disharmony.

The key to restoring love is you! Shalom!
Hephzibah Christly